Islamic Dua to Make Love to Your Wife In Islam ,” Since sexual intercourse between husband and wife in Islam is an act of worship, it should be practiced according to the teaching of Islam. One may ask about how sexual intercourse could become an act of worship!? The answer to this question is clearly stated in the hadith of the prophet (saw) that in one’s sexual intimacy with one’s life partner there is sadaqa. And we all know that Sadaqa is a highly rewarded act of worship in Islam. The prophet was very explicit in the hadith reported by Muslim: “In the sexual act of each of you there is a sadaqa.” The Companions replied: “0 Messenger of Allah! When one of us fulfils his sexual desire, will he be given a reward for that?” And he said, “Do you not think that were he to act upon it unlawfully, he would be sinning? Likewise, if he acts upon it lawfully he will be rewarded� (Muslim)
The hadith above only makes sense if the sexual intercourse is raised above the animal level because one�s character plays a very important role in exercising intercourse. It should be practiced within the Quranic paradigm of love, affection and mercy.
Allah says: And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect. Taqi Usmani: And it is among His signs that He has created for you wives from among yourselves, so that you may find tranquility in them, and He has created love and kindness between you. Surely in this there are signs for a people who reflect. (Quran: 30:21)
The Prophet (saw) said: �The most perfect of believers are those most perfect of character; and the best of you are the best of you to your spouses.� (Tirmidhi, Ibn Hibban) In another hadith of ibn Hibban: �The best of you are the best to their wives, and I am the best of you with my wives.� Ibn Hibban
When intention is made by the wife and the husband to exercise sexual intercourse, the following should be practiced: 1- wife-husband should recite the following dua before making Love/Sex �Bismillahi, Allahumma jannibnaa ash-shaitaana, wa jannib ash-shaitaana maa razaqtanna� �In the name of Allah, O Allah, keeps us away from the devil, and keep the devil away from that which You may grant us (ie. offspring).� (Bukhari / Muslim)
According to the teaching of the Prophet (saw), if the above dua is recited before intercourse, and Allah decrees that the married couple will have a child, the devil will never be able to harm that child.(Bukharee)